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 I had a keen wish to celebrate Anika’s Haathe khodi with great pomp and show. Haathe khodi means ‘chalk in hand’ which is a Bengali tradition in which children write their first letter which is supposed to be the beginning of their literal journey.  It is also known as Akshar abhyasam and Vidya arambham.  Luckily, we were in India during this auspicious month of February 2021 and my joy knew no bound knowing Anika will get the opportunity to start her preschool learning infront of goddess Saraswati.

THE HISTORY

Vasant Panchami or Saraswati puja is a festival that is dedicated to Goddess Saraswati, the Hindu god of knowledge, art, music and learning. She is the daughter of Durga and is considered as a partner to Brahma. This is the most popular festival in the eastern region and is celebrated in the month of Magh (January-February) where young children and students invoke the blessings of the Goddess. The Goddess is presented as a graceful woman in white, wearing a white silk sari, seated on a white lotus and representing purity and peace. The lotus and the moon associated with her are both symbols of eternal womanhood. As per Hindu mythology, it is on this day that Goddess Saraswati was born and every Bengali household performs the puja. 



There are various mythological stories associated with Goddess Saraswati. Both the gods and demons decided to churn the ocean and drink the Amrit or the elixir of life. Saraswati with her beauty decided to lure the asuras, but Rahu and ketu slipped in with the Gods. Vishnu detected them and cut off their heads. Saraswati helped the Gods to be immortal and was established  in the heaven.

THE DAY OF CELEBRATION

‘Haathe Khodi’ is done on the day of Saraswati Puja or Vasant Panchami( fifth day  of Spring). According to Hindu mythology, Saraswati is the goddess of learning, knowledge, art and music. So, children start writing from this day with blessings of goddess Saraswati.

Saraswati Puja is conducted on Vasant Panchami in many parts in India . In West Bengal, it is one of the more important festivals. Most schools have special celebrations on this day and children are forbidden to read anything on this day. Most significant aspect of Basant Panchami is that young girls and boys, musicians, artists celebrate this festival with great fervor. Parents prefer to choose baby girl names inspired by Goddess Saraswati.




THE RITUAL  

Vasanti or yellow is the color of this day with people wearing clothes of this color and eating sweets and food which are yellow. 

Young kids are given early bath in the morning and turmeric is applied on their forehead. They are traditionally dressed with dhoti and kurta and girls are made to wear yellow saree. Anika wore the kanjeevaram lehenga and blouse which was a gift from her loving massi and mesho. They brought it from their honeymoon trip in Kerela, India and I had made sure I will make the best use of this silk. 


The ceremony is either performed at house before goddess Saraswati or they are taken to a nearby temple where the puja is performed. A new slate and chalk is given to the child; taking help of the purohit they write the spiritual word “OM” and seek blessings from Goddess Saraswati.  


Earlier children were given special sticks made of bamboo to write, but now they use chalk and the purohit introduces the child to alphabets through the ritual. During the puja, yellow flower is used and special dishes that are of yellow color are offered to the goddess. Books, ink pots, musical instruments are placed near the goddess and after the ritual is completed, they are used again.


FOOD aND PRASAD


Since, Goddess Saraswati is considered to be pious and represents serenity, strictly vegetarian diet is served and no animal sacrifice is made. The worship is incomplete without palash flowers, marigold, plums, abhro, sandalwood paste, bel leaves and phaag. A special dish kooler chutni or plum jam is prepared and served with khichadi. The sweets used in prasad are also made of milk and white sesame seeds or til laddos are offered. 

Saraswati puja hold a special significance in the Bengali culture and reflects their respect towards art, crafts and wisdom.






While Anika got too spiritual during the occasion we are more than thankful to her Maasha and Bulbul Maashi fo making the moment worth remembering and accompanying them to the puja pandal. Thank you Bulbul maashi for the slate and chalks and Maasha for taking countless pics. 







Another six months gone and my girl is a year old today. Even if I want to express my joy writing that she has grown up to a toddler I feel a hidden pain inside. Every month I see a bit of my motherhood going away. Sometimes by acknowledging she no longer needs baby milk, sometimes by perceiving she can now stand without my support. Sometimes by seeing she can hold her bottle on her own other times by knowing she can now play and explore free and wild.

The baby duffel bag is getting empty and the light weight of it is telling me that this too shall be be forgotten and tossed away in a corner. I will be able to wear heels and carry my fave handbags again. I will be able to wear necklace and keep my hair untied. I will be able to do hundred things again but will the joy be the same?? or will it be a constant reminder that once upon a time I used to carry someone so close to me. I guess i will surely miss the pulling of my hair strands, collar buttons, the snatching of earrings and spewing on my sleeves. Ah! the list goes on. 

Before I start missing another zillion things I must celebrate her year of first. Our sweet girl turned one in August last year, and I wanted to do an inexpensive DIY cake smash and first birthday shoot, so I scoured Pinterest for ideas! Since cake smash sessions can be pretty expensive I decided to do it myself and save some money. Don’t be afraid to have your own photo shoots and cake smashes with your babes!! It’s nice to have the professional first birthday pictures, but if you don’t have the extra money to spend, you can totally do it yourself and make it amazing! Whatever you chose to do, it will be so special. I brought a full size cake from Kroger's and sprinkled it all over like I did on her six months birthday cake. (Oh! the memory washed me in nostalgia when we were celebrating her half birthday with half cake and she could barely sit up or move).





I was little curious how will she react to a cake? Will she just ignore it, get scared or be clueless seeing a puddle of cream and crumbs. Instead we were surprised to see her digging into the cake and gobble up handful of calories!! The fun part was to enjoy her expressions as she smashed and licked the frosty disaster. She created a beautiful mess!! 


















Happy birthday Anika. 

We celebrate everything about you and love you one hundred red M&Ms.



Like every year we celebrate Halloween and talking candid the year 2017 marked the unforgettable celebration of All hallow's eve. To reason out we made lot many new friends, joined a bong's(bengali) community and finally felt the foreign land is no more less than home country. To introduce my new family this occasion is best fit for all. 

Hosted by Mr and Mrs. Bardhan they didn't failed to impress us with a spooky welcome. Cobwebs entangled door, glimmer strings on shrubs and Halloween LED projecting light on walls; we were just thrilled to discover more. While the doorway entrance was just a trailer the inside hall was far more astonishing. Perfect dim lit disco light throwing the scary charms, some more cobwebs on ceilings, hanging ghost from stairways and finely carved pumpkins under the fireplace mantle. 





Now lets rush to the party floor. Here is the kids party group. Too hard to recognize which one is who i guess i shall introduce them later while you marvel at their makeovers!!


When hell is all empty and all the devils are here this is how it seems.


While the ladies section look more like a fashion ramp, girls never make up to look ugly!!


To begin with the family introduction i will pick up the hosting couple, Kaushik and Sanjukta. 
Comfortable and homely, I can get myself loose in their presence without being judged. At times i feel free to run around in their whole house creating mess knowing they can never scold me. If ever i had the chance to edit the Wikipedia of patience, i shall include their names. Lovely couple, hard to forget, you will just wish they were your neighbor!


Amartya and Sarabani. The couple who went viral through their overpowering charms and their ability to impress anybody. Just bring Trump to them! Where the wife got culinary skills coupled with acting; the husband is full time entertainer and can formulate the best of best cocktails recipe. So where there is a party you know never to strike out these two gems!


My fave couple or say i wholeheartedly adore the wife, Mrs Mukherjee. Peacemaker and sugary tongue nothing can go wrong with her. I believe even if greatest disaster comes on earth she will make it look like a calm breeze. With a family of two star like girls she is the loving lady of the house. I start liking her the first day and when a lady praise another lady that has be god dammit true!! 


Shantanu and Debrati. Though i came to know them very late but all i can i say is the husband can cook up comedy on stage spunning magic, the wife is simply adorable and never wears out cracking joke. Full of energy i have grown fond of her humour!


And that is us! No need for intro here since my readers here you are all well aware of us. 


Some favourite moments through out the night of spookiness.






 Let's not forget to thank the person to whom all the credit goes for great photography that enabled me to blog, Mr. Shankar Sen Gupta. If you are wondering which one of is him, it is the human look alike in the pic. Plain, simple yet passionate about living, he is full of creativity flowing in his blood. An amazing personality with good stage direction skill, he got a taste for classic Bengali. The man who brought us all together, i shall always be grateful to make us  a part in each other's life.



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HAPPY HALLOWEEN 2017!!!


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