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While COVID-19 may have limited people's abilities to actively go out and celebrate each day muting our fun and joy, that doesn't mean creative celebrations can't be done indoors and magic cannot happen. Kids’ birthdays can be some of the hardest events to celebrate during quarantine, because they may not understand why this year is different. 
Earlier it was difficult on our part to keep ourselves locked indoor, praying every day for things to normalize, for vaccine to come out, for breathing out of masks, for touching everything without fear and for not treating human as a weapon anymore. 

 Months came and went and we realize covid has no right to suck the joy out of my family. If we are lucky this too shall pass without touching us. So we decided to embrace the bad times and make this pandemic so memorable that it should get etched in our mind because bad days must reminds you how worth your life is in good times.  

With no big gatherings we decided to make the most out of Anika’s 2ndbirthday celebration at home! It was only us, me, Ani and Anika. 


BIRTHDAY CAKE

The preparation for Anika's 2nd birthday began from one month in advance in July. I didnt want to take any risk ordering cake from some bakery or pick it from random bakery's rack in grocery store. I had rather bake it at home and feed it to my girl tension free My baking actually sucks because i have no patince to make the batter and spend hell lot of time in kitchen. Betty Crocker definitely came to my rescue with fondants and cream toppings of my choice in Amazon. Thanks to virtual world that with minimum shopping outdoor things came directly to my door. I wanted the theme to be correlated with covid and made sure my cake looks equally fun giving the right message. It was really an experience to bake for first timer like me. 







THE THEME DECORATION

The environment can make all the difference. When you decorate the house for a special occasion, it can change the mood to be more uplifted and excited. Even though this day might not feel like a typical birthday, going above and beyond with the decorations can make this birthday feel extra special. I chose balloons and picking her fave animal stuff toys, placing signs in the front to create the perfect atmosphere for a quarantine birthday party.

A week before I also took out time to make the birthday banner and all the sign placards. It was a eureka moment when I was able to hang the balloon arch perfectly. 















THE BIRTHDAY GIRL

We picked a bright aqua green frill dress for her which was soft and comfortable to not irritate her skin. The dress was gifted from a friend and we made sure she see this pic. 
Earlier it was hard to bring her to mood for photo session. So we had do lot of fun activity to make her comfortable and bring out her best smile. Oh! why does it always happen on her birthday when she becomes cranky?








 MAKE A WISH UPON THE CANDLE



We choose the evening time for cake cutting giving her ample time break to sleep and rest before she looks her best again for candle blowing. Once again her dad picked the dress he is confident will make her look even more pretty. 















   HAPPY BIRTHDAY VIRTUAL STYLE

Now that everyone have been video calling these days to bunch of people we were blessed that we are living in times of internet and advance tech. We got the luxury to have our family and friends get their party hats and noisemakers and get ready to celebrate with us virtually. If you are comfortable with Watsapp or Facetime conference video calling then Zoom is also another good option which is free as long as you stay within a certain time frame.  
Invite everyone to a video chat to share their birthday wishes and reunite with everyone. It can be hard to feel close to others during quarantine, but video chat is an easy way to connect and make the birthday person feel celebrated.
  OTHER WAYS TO CELEBRATE FOR KIDS PARTY
So I read someone's blog from where I got these amazing ideas of other ways to make kids' party extra fun during quarantine and is tempted to put her words here. 
GIFTS HUNTING GAME
 Instead of simply giving the presents to your child, take it up a notch (and keep them active) by organizing a scavenger hunt for their presents hidden around the house just like Easter egg hunting. After they have found them all, open them together and watch their face light up!
WISHES THROUGH MAILS OR TEXT
Birthday parties are usually filled with family and friends chatting and reliving fun memories with the birthday boy or girl. Whether through email, text or mail, capture these same moments even though you can’t be with people in person. Have your friends and family send their favorite memory and enjoy laughing, crying and reminiscing on all of the submissions.
 IT'S A 'YES' DAY
Does your child want a dance party? Yes! Do they want ice cream for dinner? Yes! Do they want to fill their entire bedroom with balloons? Yes! Let their imagination run wild and fulfill all of their wishes for the day (within reason). This will make them feel like the day is all about them, even though it can’t be celebrated in a normal way.
REUNITE WITH CLASSMATE
If you kid is already missing their play school friends – Collaborate with your kid’s teacher to arrange a video chat with their classmates to all sing happy birthday together.
Lastly but not least unplug from your work and spend the whole day with your kid! Nothing can make them feel more special than spending the day with them. 
SHOP THE PARTY LIST



A year has gone without my dad. 365 days of walking around with a void in my chest. A year without hearing him again. Though I see him a lot in my dreams, in my thoughts, in my photo books, in my memories, I miss listening to his sound of laugh and all his jokes. I miss hearing him calling out my name and still telling him-Arey daddy aapko kuch bhi nhi aata. His voice was all that could uplift me and made me feel so special. 

As the months are going away I am recollecting if I have done enough for you? If I have given my best to make you happy in your lifetime? If I have pampered with enough gifts.  Being from typical Indian family all I regret is that we have never hugged each other. It was either a light pat from him on my shoulder or just a tight handshake or a loud hi five. Why was I so shy to hug you dad? 

 There are times I do feel jealous seeing other’s dad and kids still together. Oh yes, I am being honest here I do feel jealous and lot angry and then a tear of wound will drop from my eyes-hu was my happy picture picked to remain incomplete? 

What angers me the most is people asking me-how is your mom deepika? It piss me so much because it reminds me of the puzzle piece is missing from family board. Why can’t you people still treat us as complete family and still ask-how are your parents?





I mourn for you everyday and all that joys you were robbed of...

I guess I’ll always be partially a little girl missing her dad like crazy and wishing he could swoop in and save the day…

I promise to take your memory along for every part of the ride. I will love you fiercely until I am burned in that same fire. I am forever changed by losing you and yet I only am who I am to begin with because of you. My broken heart is the same one that has loved you since the day I was born. You are forever my king and I am forever your little girl.

We are here for mom and making the most of it with her.

Like every year we celebrate Halloween and talking candid the year 2017 marked the unforgettable celebration of All hallow's eve. To reason out we made lot many new friends, joined a bong's(bengali) community and finally felt the foreign land is no more less than home country. To introduce my new family this occasion is best fit for all. 

Hosted by Mr and Mrs. Bardhan they didn't failed to impress us with a spooky welcome. Cobwebs entangled door, glimmer strings on shrubs and Halloween LED projecting light on walls; we were just thrilled to discover more. While the doorway entrance was just a trailer the inside hall was far more astonishing. Perfect dim lit disco light throwing the scary charms, some more cobwebs on ceilings, hanging ghost from stairways and finely carved pumpkins under the fireplace mantle. 





Now lets rush to the party floor. Here is the kids party group. Too hard to recognize which one is who i guess i shall introduce them later while you marvel at their makeovers!!


When hell is all empty and all the devils are here this is how it seems.


While the ladies section look more like a fashion ramp, girls never make up to look ugly!!


To begin with the family introduction i will pick up the hosting couple, Kaushik and Sanjukta. 
Comfortable and homely, I can get myself loose in their presence without being judged. At times i feel free to run around in their whole house creating mess knowing they can never scold me. If ever i had the chance to edit the Wikipedia of patience, i shall include their names. Lovely couple, hard to forget, you will just wish they were your neighbor!


Amartya and Sarabani. The couple who went viral through their overpowering charms and their ability to impress anybody. Just bring Trump to them! Where the wife got culinary skills coupled with acting; the husband is full time entertainer and can formulate the best of best cocktails recipe. So where there is a party you know never to strike out these two gems!


My fave couple or say i wholeheartedly adore the wife, Mrs Mukherjee. Peacemaker and sugary tongue nothing can go wrong with her. I believe even if greatest disaster comes on earth she will make it look like a calm breeze. With a family of two star like girls she is the loving lady of the house. I start liking her the first day and when a lady praise another lady that has be god dammit true!! 


Shantanu and Debrati. Though i came to know them very late but all i can i say is the husband can cook up comedy on stage spunning magic, the wife is simply adorable and never wears out cracking joke. Full of energy i have grown fond of her humour!


And that is us! No need for intro here since my readers here you are all well aware of us. 


Some favourite moments through out the night of spookiness.






 Let's not forget to thank the person to whom all the credit goes for great photography that enabled me to blog, Mr. Shankar Sen Gupta. If you are wondering which one of is him, it is the human look alike in the pic. Plain, simple yet passionate about living, he is full of creativity flowing in his blood. An amazing personality with good stage direction skill, he got a taste for classic Bengali. The man who brought us all together, i shall always be grateful to make us  a part in each other's life.



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HAPPY HALLOWEEN 2017!!!


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